vfs: fix rename over non-empty directory

[christianaurichzm]

MemoryProvider#renameSync() only rejected a destination whose type differed from the source (EISDIR/ENOTDIR). When both sides were directories it fell through to replacing the destination in its parent, so the destination directory and everything under it disappeared:

// node --experimental-vfs
const vfs = require('node:vfs').create();
vfs.mkdirSync('/src');
vfs.mkdirSync('/dst');
vfs.writeFileSync('/dst/keep.txt', 'keep');

vfs.renameSync('/src', '/dst');   // no error
vfs.existsSync('/dst/keep.txt');  // false

rename(2) accepts an existing directory as the destination only when it is empty, and fails with ENOTEMPTY otherwise. RealFSProvider delegates to fs.renameSync() and already behaves that way, so the two providers backing the same node:vfs API disagreed.

Two smaller fixes in the same function, both covered by the new tests:

• a file replaced by a rename now loses a link, so a hard link to it no longer reports an inflated nlink;
• a rename whose two names resolve to the same entry is a no-op; renaming one hard link onto another used to remove the source name while the file kept its old link count.

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[christianaurichzm]

@mcollina, since you just landed the VFS module-loader integration in 4d9cb71, would you mind taking a look at this MemoryProvider#renameSync() fix when convenient?

I rebased it onto the current main and re-ran test/parallel/test-vfs-rename.js successfully. The PR still has needs-ci, so a Jenkins CI run would also be appreciated once it looks ready.

Thanks!