build: add --shared-highway configure flag

[aduh95]

V8 supports it, we might as well

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Review requested:

• @nodejs/actions
• @nodejs/gyp
• @nodejs/v8-update

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Platform	Number of requisites	Proportion of new derivations
x86_64-linux	485 -> 486 => +1	1 / 486 = 0.2%
aarch64-linux	486 -> 487 => +1	1 / 487 = 0.2%
x86_64-darwin	427 -> 428 => +1	1 / 428 = 0.2%
aarch64-darwin	428 -> 429 => +1	1 / 429 = 0.2%
Total	1826 -> 1830 => +4	4 / 1830 = 0.2%

Changelog

@@ -614,0 +615,4 @@
+/nix/store/9ps8zgr1ayyb0xsfjgc5l4fj5cl6580l-libhwy-1.3.0 (x86_64-darwin)
+/nix/store/1anb6fsq5mlxspcygc2zny7r8b35ndrr-libhwy-1.4.0 (aarch64-darwin)
+/nix/store/fp8vz64x28x83c0d0kgp1nsllba90jg0-libhwy-1.4.0 (aarch64-linux)
+/nix/store/rng7khx9mgqrzrsnbgfksgy56ad6r6hw-libhwy-1.4.0 (x86_64-linux)

[codecov]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 90.06%. Comparing base (c4336d9) to head (23438cb).
⚠️ Report is 7 commits behind head on main.

Additional details and impacted files

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##             main   #65686      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage   90.05%   90.06%   +0.01%     
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  Files         754      754              
  Lines      256369   256378       +9     
  Branches    48488    48494       +6     
==========================================
+ Hits       230865   230903      +38     
+ Misses      16630    16619      -11     
+ Partials     8874     8856      -18     

see 28 files with indirect coverage changes

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CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-pull-request/76784/

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V8 CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-commit-v8-linux/nodes=benchmark-ubuntu2404-intel-64,v8test=v8test/7333/

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V8 CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-commit-v8-linux/nodes=rhel8-power9le,v8test=v8test/7333/

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V8 CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/job/node-test-commit-v8-linux/nodes=rhel8-s390x,v8test=v8test/7333/