Use attribute parser for checking #[may_dangle] attribute

[obeis]

Updates #153101

This PR is stacked on top of #162683 and #162530, review should be on the last commit only. Once those PRs are merged, I will rebase my branch.

r? @JonathanBrouwer

CC @mejrs

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[JonathanBrouwer]

I'll wait with reviewing this until the two PRs its based on have landed

[rust-bors]

☔ The latest upstream changes made this pull request unmergeable. Please resolve the merge conflicts by rebasing.