fix: no async transition in useQuery

[mismosmi]

Fixes several issues:

• multiple in-flight revalidations could arrive out of order -> race condition fixed
• useQuery would run updates as an async transition which blocks react -> await then startTransition instead
• PubSub.publish would not await callbacks, they were not even async to start with -> revalidated now actually awaits the finished state updates

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Name	Type
@toapi/client	Minor
@toapi/common	Minor
@toapi/react	Minor
@toapi/server	Minor
@toapi/worker	Minor

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